Objectify

To 'objectify means to treat as an object. In sexual terms, it refers to one person seeking their own sexual gratification with no regard for the feelings, interests, needs, etc. of the other party.

As a rule, BoyLovers rarely "objectify" the boys with whom they wish to enter into a relationship together with. To the BoyLover, the boy is a real human being, and not an object, but a person who has real feelings, and the BoyLover usually highly respects the boy's feelings.

See also

• rape narrative
• child abuse narrative
• BoyLover child-abuse narrative
• incest narrative